39: Surviving the Big C

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C – as in Covid? Well that is what 2020 was all about. The world was fighting this pandemic.

But I have my own reasons as to why 2020 will remain a year, I will never forget. Infact, I actually forgot that COVID even existed.

In July 2020, I got detected with an advanced stage of Colon Cancer. The news hit me and family like a thunderbolt. Felt like I was having a bad dream. Especially since I showed no symptoms and lived a perfectly normal, fairly healthy lifestyle. From here on, it was a series of tests, a major surgery, followed by 12 sessions of chemotherapy. It was difficult.

As expected this news did reach my friends and family members. I was overwhelmed with the number of messages I received from so many people. What really touched my heart was, there were people who I did not know very well, had still messaged me and continued to stay in touch throughout my chemotherapy sessions. Felt so blessed to see how many people prayed for me. This gave me the courage to stay strong and remain positive.

I did have my moments where I broke down, and I still think of those days in the hospital. However, I am trying to make a conscious effort in trying to move on and not think about it. In August 2020 I resumed work, (WFH) and that helped me a lot as I kept myself busy throughout the chemotherapy sessions.  

My biggest strengths were my husband and my younger sister. I could not have done this without them. That’s when I realised, there must be so many people struggling through difficult times all alone. I can only thank God for who I have in my life.

There is also a new addition to my family, my fur baby Tyson. An unpaid therapist, a baby who lives on love, walks, and cuddles.

I know my journey with the Big C is not yet over… but you know what I have bounced back with even more energy and resilience.


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Kusum Hemnani
Kusum Hemnani
3 years ago

Bravo girl, full credit to your will power and inner strength

Priya
Priya
3 years ago

Kudos Girl…all is well that ends well…

Joel
Joel
3 years ago

UR a rockstar!! UR a fighter!! Will Always be by your side..

Leanne Da costa Frias
Leanne Da costa Frias
3 years ago

Your positivity and determination to fight this is, is absolutely inspirational! More power to you – braveheart😘

Hanif Khan
Hanif Khan
3 years ago

Hello Neesha,

A great read. Yours is a story of great strength, perseverance and patience. Kudos to you for fighting this battle physically and mentally; and hats off to your husband (my dear friend) for being there.. Salutes to you. God Bless..

Sharon pinto
Sharon pinto
3 years ago

Neesha is one of the strongest girls I’ve seen full of positivity so much of love to give a beautiful human being and a fighter someone who always smiled in her darkest moments. A great inspiration to all of us that there is nothing one cannot overcome with the right attitude, spirit and the power of love for life , god bless you my dear . Love you loads

Anita
Anita
3 years ago

Love and prayers!! Always!!
You’re the bravest person I know!! 😁

Urvi
Urvi
3 years ago

Bravo Neesha!
I am happy and proud to see you pass through this with so much courage and positivity, your brave attitude gave tremendous strength to my friend stay strong with you.

Jennifer Manoel
Jennifer Manoel
3 years ago

Glad to hear you’re doing well. I wish you a speedy and complete recovery. Very motivating to hear your story, it’s reassuring that God will always send angels when we are journey gets difficult.

Kazmeen rafik
Kazmeen rafik
3 years ago

Agree with everyone’s comments…..my sister is the sexiest rockstar who fought this big C with all the positive energy she had within her…….love you neesha.

Saloni Mistry
Saloni Mistry
3 years ago

Yours is a powerful story of strength and love, and most inspiring! Neesha, <3 May you enjoy success and happiness in everything that you do.. love of love!
Saloni

Marlene
Marlene
3 years ago

We thank God for his mercies 🙏 Neesh, I am so proud of you and we continue praying. Keep strong and keep the faith. 🥰

Bettina Tauro
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Bettina Tauro
3 years ago

Neesha the only C I see is your cheerful courage. Am so happy to see you’re in a good place. Thank you for sharing your experience with us.

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